Somehow, throughout the world and in most countries, this relationship is one of the most strained, and understandably so.

You see, it's the complication of women's minds along with other complex feelings like love, jealously, protectiveness, possessiveness, sharing issues, ego, etc., will come into a complex plan. The mother has borne the son. She reared him up. No matter what she claims, says, or whatever she appears to be, she isn't going to love it when this girl walks into the family out of nowhere and starts to eat into her son's time.

The best way to deal with it is to live away from your mother in law. The couple should always be able to live together, separately. If this doesn't work, try talking to your Mother-in-law.