You may feel detached at the beginning of a pregnancy because you have no signs or symptoms make the pregnancy real. Most of men need something tangible (e.g. Seen an ultrasound image of the baby, heard the heartbeat) before they can accept the pregnancy.

Parenthood is a journey together, so its important that you talk to your wife and offer help. You can run a warm bath for her before bedtime; massage her back and shoulder; try to be understanding of her mood swings as pregnancy can be a roller coaster of emotions; listen to what she wants from you; come with her to antenatal classes and ultrasound scans.

Patience, understanding and love are the key factors. Always remember that she is carrying your baby, and you are going to be a great dad!